Friday, 1 November 2019

Six Secrets To A Successful Marriage

                Who we marry is one of the most important decisions in life. One that will influence the level of happiness, growth and success, like no other choice. - NATHAN WORKMAN

Marriage is a decision in life as said in the quote above, this is a decision that can affect the way you live the rest of your life... If not well taken can make one in a mess or otherwise. 

              One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate!

You see that statement of ' Am I your mate?' does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on six dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate. 

Question: What do i mean by Marry Your Mate?

Answer:  These simply means for you to marry someone you can relate with. The person that what you to grow as he or she grows. someone that what you both to keep developing and moving stronger... Not someone that is in competitions with you in some levels of life..

Today on Fortizo Light i shall reveal to us "Six Secrets To A Successful Marriage"...   Seat back, take a chill drink and read thoroughly with lots of understanding... As i share with you - Six dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate ( Six Secrets To A Successful Marriage )


          Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don't marry someone that, when you are saying 'A' he or she will be saying ' Z' Once there is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can't enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can't engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.


          By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don't marry ' Mr Know all' or 'Miss Know all'. Don't marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution, where you learn and teach yourself what you think is best for you two. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your 'school mate'; someone who is ready to learn with you.


          Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don't marry someone who's believe of God is different from yours. Two can't work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 ). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry. ask yourself and answer the question: How close and well is he or she to the things of God?


          Don't marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won't suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don't marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ' My husband's money is our money, but my money is my money'. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labor, who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.


          By this I do not mean you should marry your same sex. Please do not practice homosexual sexual ( gay and lesbianism ). Marry someone you have sexual feelings for. Sexual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. Sex plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don't have emotional feelings for, don't marry the person. If you don't have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a sexual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won't be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won't be reading the Bible or worshiping God 24/7. You will have sex! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with sexually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much!


          Don't marry someone you won't be proud to go out with. Don't marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don't marry an anti- social person.

          you might be wondering if you can find all the 'mates' in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don't need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you.
The promise of God for you is this : 'Seek and read from the book of the LORD: Not one of these shall be missing; none shall be without her mate. For the mouth of the LORD has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them.' (Isaiah 34:16).
Say it loud and clear ' I shall not lack a mate! '

I hope this blessed someone reading? If you have anything to add, please do with the comment box below, i will love to hear from my readers. Please share this post link ( ) with friend and loved one, it might be beneficial to them too,  thank you for reading and sharing to others.

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